What Exactly Is Conversion Therapy? Here’s Everything You Need to Know
Know what conversion therapy really involves, why experts condemn it as harmful, and the disturbing truth many people still don’t fully understand.
Even if you’ve heard conversion therapy described as “just counseling” or a matter of faith, the evidence shows it’s a set of practices aimed at changing or suppressing your sexual orientation or gender identity. You should know these methods aren’t supported by credible medical science and can cause serious harm. To understand why experts reject them, it helps to look at what actually happens under this label.
Key Insights
- Conversion therapy is any practice that tries to change, suppress, or “repair” a person’s sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
- It grew from outdated beliefs that LGBTQ+ identities were disordered or immoral, and has been carried out by clergy, counselors, family members, and some clinicians.
- Methods include talk therapy, punishment or rewards for gender conformity, hypnosis, prayer, exorcism, and aversive techniques like electric shocks or nausea-inducing drugs.
- There is no credible evidence that conversion therapy reliably changes sexual orientation or gender identity; major medical organizations reject it as ineffective and unethical.
- Research and survivor accounts link conversion therapy to depression, shame, substance use, and higher risks of suicidal thoughts and attempts, especially among minors.
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What Is Conversion Therapy?
At its core, conversion therapy refers to a range of practices that try to change, suppress, or “repair” a person’s sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. You may also hear terms like SOCE or GICE. Clinically, these interventions are not supported by credible evidence, and major health organizations warn they can cause harm.
If you look at the history origins, you’ll see these efforts emerged from outdated beliefs that LGBTQ+ identities were disordered or morally wrong. Today, providers may include clergy, unlicensed counselors, family members, or some clinicians, often using softened labels to obscure intent. Survivor narratives consistently describe shame, coercion, and worsening mental health, including depression, substance use, and suicidal thoughts. For minors especially, experts often characterize exposure as abuse rather than legitimate care or treatment.
What Practices Are Used in Conversion Therapy?
These practices take many forms, but they share the same goal: trying to suppress or change a person’s sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. You may encounter talk therapy, cognitive restructuring, hypnosis, or behavior modification that rewards gender-conforming behavior and punishes nonconformity. Some providers use aversive conditioning, including electric shocks or nausea-inducing drugs.
You may also see religious techniques, such as pastoral counseling, prayer, exorcism, or scripture-based guidance, sometimes paired with deprivation or physical punishment. In documented cases, providers have used hormone manipulation, chemical or surgical castration, and, historically, brain surgery. Some programs have also misused gender-affirming procedures to try to “neutralize” orientation. These practices can come from unlicensed ministries, religious counselors, or licensed clinicians using euphemistic labels to avoid scrutiny or regulation.
Does Conversion Therapy Work?
Why doesn’t conversion therapy work? Because credible research hasn’t shown it can reliably change your sexual orientation or gender identity. Major reviews find little to no lasting change, and studies that claimed success were weakened by serious flaws, including retrospective self-report, self-selected samples, and missing control groups. There also aren’t randomized controlled trials supporting it.
When you look past efficacy myths, the pattern stays consistent. Large surveys show that reported “change” usually means suppressing behavior, adopting a role, or relabeling identity, not a durable shift in attraction. That’s why leading professional organizations, including the APA, AMA, AACAP, and WHO/PAHO, reject conversion therapy as evidence-based care. Survivor narratives align with this research: what gets described as success rarely reflects genuine, sustained change. Clinical guidance doesn’t recognize it as effective treatment today.
What Are the Harms of Conversion Therapy?
Because conversion therapy doesn’t work, its risks can’t be justified—and those risks are serious. If you’re exposed to it, research shows worse mental health outcomes, including depression, substance use, and suicidal thoughts or attempts. Family dynamics can deepen that harm, especially when rejection or pressure comes from caregivers.
| What you may experience | Why it matters |
|---|---|
| Shame, fear, isolation | These feelings can erode self-worth |
| Depression or substance use | Your mental health may decline quickly |
Survey data show rejected youth face dramatically higher risk of suicide attempts and severe depression. Major clinical organizations say these practices lack scientific credibility and can be harmful or abusive. For minors, the long-term psychological damage can be especially profound, affecting trust, identity, and safety. You deserve affirming, evidence-based care instead.
Is Conversion Therapy Illegal or Medically Accepted?
Although laws differ by location, conversion therapy isn’t medically accepted: major professional groups—including the American Psychiatric Association, American Psychological Association, American Medical Association, American Academy of Pediatrics, and PAHO—oppose it as unethical, unsupported by evidence, and potentially harmful.
Although laws vary, conversion therapy is not medically accepted and is widely condemned as unethical, unproven, and potentially harmful.
If you’re evaluating its legal status and medical consensus, focus on three facts:
- There’s no credible evidence it changes sexual orientation or gender identity.
- Research links it to higher risks of depression, substance use, and suicidality.
- Many jurisdictions ban or restrict licensed providers from using it on minors.
You’ll find the legal status varies widely. About 26 U.S. states, Washington, D.C., Puerto Rico, and some countries restrict or ban it for health professionals. Some courts have also treated conversion practices as consumer fraud or abuse.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who Is Most Likely to Be Pressured Into Conversion Therapy?
You’re most likely to face pressure into conversion therapy if you’re a young person, especially among young teens in religious families or conservative communities. You may also be vulnerable if you depend on caregivers, attend faith-based schools, or lack affirming support. Evidence shows LGBTQ+ youth experience this pressure disproportionately. Clinically, coercion often comes from authority figures who claim they’re helping, even when the practice increases depression, anxiety, and suicide risk.
How Can Someone Recognize Subtle Forms of Conversion Therapy?
Picture a funnel: affirming language narrows into pressure to “fix” you. You can recognize subtle forms when counseling, faith guidance, or family support treats your orientation or gender as a problem to change. Watch for microaggression signs, repeated shame, enforced gender roles, and identity erasure through “loving” advice. Evidence shows these tactics can harm mental health. Trust your discomfort, document patterns, and seek affirming, licensed support quickly.
What Should Parents Do if a Child Is Targeted?
If your child is targeted, act quickly: affirm them, make certain immediate safety, and document what happened. You should remove them from the harmful setting, contact a licensed mental health professional, and inform trusted school or community leaders. Seek legalities in your area so you understand reporting options and protections. Create support groups around your child, including affirming family, peers, and clinicians, to reduce isolation, stress, and long-term psychological harm.
How Can Survivors Find Affirming Mental Health Support?
You can find affirming mental health support like a lighthouse through fog: start with licensed therapists who explicitly offer trauma informed care and LGBTQIA+ competence. You should ask about their training, approach, and safety practices before booking. You can also seek peer support through survivor networks, community centers, or vetted online groups. If you’re in crisis, contact an LGBTQIA+ hotline or local emergency services immediately for confidential, urgent help.
What Warning Signs Suggest a Therapist Is Not LGBTQ+-Affirming?
Warning signs include a therapist who uses shame, dismisses your identity, misgenders you, or treats LGBTQ+ identities as symptoms, confusion, or pathology. You should also be cautious if a clinician endorses change in your orientation or gender identity, pressures you toward celibacy, or ignores minority stress. Affirming therapists support self-understanding, autonomy, and safety. If sessions leave you feeling judged, hidden, or less secure, trust that reaction.
Conclusion
If you’re asking what conversion therapy really is, the evidence is clear: it doesn’t change who you are, but it can deeply harm your mental health. The theory that sexual orientation or gender identity can be “fixed” has been repeatedly disproven by credible medical research. Instead, these practices are linked to trauma, depression, and suicide risk. You deserve care that affirms your identity, protects your safety, and reflects established clinical standards—not stigma disguised as treatment.
Profile Author / Editor / Publisher
- Dora Kay Saparow came out in a conservative Nebraskan town where she faced both misunderstanding and acceptance during her transition. Seeking specialized support, she moved to a big city, where she could access the medical, legal, and social resources necessary for her journey. Now, thirteen years later, Dora is fully transitioned, happily married, and well-integrated into society. Her story underscores the importance of time, resources, and community support, offering hope and encouragement to others pursuing their authentic selves.
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